It’s worth asking not just how to seize the day but why exactly we’re not, advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith writesRead more Leading questionsI long to carpe diem! I have a busy life, a loving partner and good friends but, despite looking forward to holidays or events, when I am in them I feel unable to relax and enjoy.I constantly think about work or my daughter or my elderly mum or, most dully, my pension. I know people notice. And it’s not just an obvious checking of my phone, I feel it’s a vacantness behind the eyes. How can I be more present? Continue reading...